we have recently got back together
but his ex is trying to split us up,

is it bad that i am making him chose between me and her because she is gonna split us up if me n im carry on talking to her?

I would tell him to choose!

Well your situation does sound quite complicated. You might wanna take properly plan this out. Considering that if you approach your bf about this issue, he might feel you're controlling or over bearing. He might feel that you don't want him around other females, which could cause more problems between the two of you. I'd sit down with him and talk to him bout the situation and take a plan of action based on what he feels and thinks. If he assures you that her attempts are frivolous, and he is devoted to you than have faith in him and trust in his word. And if all goes wrong maybe it just wasnt meant to be. Some times no matter how hard two people try to make a relationship work it just won't because of whatever reason. I wish you luck, and hope my advice hasn't caused you more issues as many times my advice does. Take care.

dont do that yet , id say tell him what u think . like waht u said is perfect !

an then he will relize where you coming from .

hope that helps good luck !

The last part of you're post didn't make much sense dear.

But if you have not already found the answer.

Of course it isn't wrong to make him choose between you are her.
There is time slots in order to ask, and this is a very vague post of what is going on.

So it isn't safe to say too much regarding this overall.

However, the moral, and intention isn't wrong.

A man has to realize what he really wants, and if he indeed wants a relationship and with whom.

When it comes down to these type of situations.
Men will choose who benefits him more, lets pray he isn't that?

All in all, no it isn't wrong.

Dang gurl. . . that's a tough one.
I don't think it's bad makin him choose cuz if he really cares he will choose yuh.
There's obviously a reason his ex is his ex.
If possible jus laugh it off.
why? cuz yuh got him NOT HER!.
I've been in yur position before && I know how it feels.
It sux. But yuh can && will get thru it.

KEEP YUR HEAD UP HIGH HUNNI!. =]
(Hope I helped)

no, he can't have the both of you. therefore he needs to choose. of he can't see that himself, thenhe needs someone to let him know. who else if not you? good luck.

poor u bbe. hope it works out. not sure wat i'd do , nothing like thats everr happened 2 mee.

gd luck hun x