Maybe it's just me, but when u e-date ppl, it requires u to fall in love with their personality since u cant meet them in person. yeah, webcam helps, but its still not the same. i personally have been blessed with an amazing guy. i met him on TC and fell in love with his personality.

Some ppl have problems with e-dating. they think its bad. i dont see the big deal with it. as long as u get to know the person really well before u meet in person, then u r safe. but dont just meet some random person. make sure u know they arent a ****.

if you do it safely, e-dating can be fun and u can possibly find ur other half. I think i have found mine...

Aww thatz too cute.
Congratz!. =]

Honestly, there is nothing wrong with E-Dating.
It's bad name comes from teenagers that try it. Because lots of teenagers use E-Dating or Long Distance dating a lot.
Because obvously teenagers are to young to visit their lover that they meet online. The relationship falls apart.
Also because they are to immature, and can't handle a -relationship- all together. Wither it was real life or online.

For a relationship to properly come. As i've said before. -maturity- is required. Because with it, comes a lot of tools and trats that are -essential- in a true relationship. Wither it'll be Online or Close Contact.

Online Dating has it's flaws when compared to Real Life.
But in replacement, it has things that cannot be obtained so easly, or perhaps not even at all with an online relationship.

One of these, is the conversation itself.
When meeting someone, many affects come in, their face, the fear, which holds back some things. Words are held back, the persons appreance, tone, etc.

Basically it hides a couple things. While on the other hand. Online Dating, or an online conversation is the person talking freely, with A LOT less worry, because the up-close encounter doesn't apply.
Furthermore, you actually listen, you read everything word for word, and responce to it
And this conversation format goes on for hours, on hours, on hours, on hours EACH day.

Thinking about it logically, you spend about 3 hours maybe less on a conversation with a real life friend. And the conversation itself isn't deep, or really about anything. Girls this, guys that, going here, how was your day.
3 Hours at best, if they are close friends around 5.

A lover itself, is really around 6 hours, maybe less a day.
And thats discluding the phone, because online dating has phone too.

Now, taking into consideration chatting online
You spend hours, countless hours, if you have freetime talking to a friendly contact, or lover.
Around 5+ hours a day, maybe more, and recall that the conversation is usaully something worth deep, and much more special in a way because the Traits and fear aren't there. You're -soul- is talking.

Online dating has it's flaws
So does Real life, they both are about the same % to become a good relationship
But thinking about that..i mean come on
How much good relationships we see anyways? lmao


Point is that if you're -old- enough, and -mature- enough.
Online dating is a good option, learning the soul before the body.
Real life dating is a little harder to be honest, but it also needs -maturity- in it.
And a lot of it.

All in all, the conversation and the knowing the person is what counts in a relationship. Talking to them, getting to know them.
Because we don't fall inlove with the body, it really is about the personality, no matter if you want a -hot- girl or not.

Because in the end, you don't fall inlove with someone by just seeing them breathe.
How do you fall inlove with someone?
how do you get to know someone?

you "TALK" to them, and thats the bottom line.
Online Dating has lots of that
real life does too.
So overall. They both are good even out methods for obtaining a relationship, or even Friendship.

(:

While both of you have very good points, this all is so very complicated. The answer to all this confusion and disarray is.........CASUAL SEX.

I Dont see the problem with e dateing because its an easy way to meet someone special and you can fall in love with whats important not just there looks

lLOL LARA




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